The Sopranos Italian Slang

Big Paulie told his wife he was out with the boys, but really he was bangin' his goomah at a hotel.
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  • What follows is a dictionary of some of the best (not all) of The Sopranos malapropisms, misnomers, and messed up idioms and some entries explaining them. Revenge is like serving cold cuts. –Tony Soprano explaining to Dr. Melfi how anger is bad for business. Tony adds an Italian flair to the well-known adage, ‘revenge is a dish best served.
  • For example imagine a subculture that tried its best to preserve the customs, traditions, slang and whatnot of the US in 1890. Mainstream Americans would laugh at such a subculture. It’s not that different really. Italian American culture tries to preserve something that simply doesn’t exist in Italy anymore, but at one time did.

With that in mind, I've put together a big list of 30 need-to-know Italian slang expressions to help you fit in with the natives. As you'll see, some of these phrases are specific to particular regions. And some of them are idioms, rather than slang. Don't worry, I'll explain all. Derogatory slang term for a black person. A Sicilian word, derived from the Italian 'melanzane' (English: eggplant). Common among Italian-Americans, particularly of Sicilian origin, as a slur for African-Americans. Popularized in American culture by television drama series 'The Sopranos'.

Stu.gots (Noun) English term derived from Italian referencing male genitalia. Also, the name of the Sopranos’ boat.

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When the “crush” has no intentions of taking things further, but they like the attention. So they flirt here or there, send dm/texts just to keep the person interested, knowing damn well they’re staying single.
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Danielle was so flirty the other night, he messaged me 3 times just to say hello, I think he’s coming around.
No Susan he’s breadcrumbing you just so you’ll keep nibbling at his heels.
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A: You going out with your wife?
B: Nah, I thought I'd hit a movie and dinner with my goomah instead.
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The popularity of this word stems from The Sopranos, an HBO TV show about the New Jersey mafia. Goo-mah is another way to say 'mistress'. Since this has been spelt phonetically, you should also expect the word to be spelt 'goo-ma'. Even though The Sopranos is an show about the Italian New Jersey mob, the word Goo-mah is of Chinese origin, where in the Cantonese dialect it means 'auntie'.
Where have you been? But of course, you've been humping your 'goo-mah' all night! The wife's bad or just boring in bed - that's why we all need a goo-mah to get our rocks off!
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The popularity of this word stems from The Sopranos, an HBO TV show about the New Jersey mafia. Goo-mah is another way to say 'mistress'. Since this has been spelt phonetically, you should also expect the word to be spelt 'goo-ma'. Even though The Sopranos is an show about the Italian New Jersey mob, the word Goo-mah is of Chinese origin, where in the Cantonese dialect it means 'auntie'. In the Soprano's the phrase refers to any one of a mobster's mistresses.
Where have you been? But of course, you've been humping your 'goo-mah' all night! The wife's bad or just boring in bed - that's why we all need a goo-mah to get our rocks off!

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By: Dina Di Maio, ISDA Contributor

This week, an article appeared in northjersey.com, part of the USA Today Network, that begins “You may be speaking Soprano–and not even know it.” The article talks about HBO’s show The Sopranosand how it used “Italian-American food slang words” that only New Yorkers know. The article lists a number of words such as “goomah” and “goomba” and their definitions.

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The words included in this list are all words from the Neapolitan dialect, and most likely other Southern Italian dialects as well. A “goomah” is a comare, a godmother at your baptism or confirmation, two sacraments in the Roman Catholic religion. (A comare can also be a man’s mistress.) A “goomba” is a compare, a godfather, the male equivalent. These words are also used to describe well-loved people who are not relatives.

They are pronounced like “goomah” and “goomba” because in dialects of Southern Italy, “c” is pronounced like a hard “g,” “o” can sound like “u,” “p” can sound like “b,” and “r” can sound like “d” or be so soft as to be left off like many vowels are.

In general, there is much misinformation in the media regarding the culture of Italian Americans, and once you become aware of it, you’ll start to pick up on it in other areas. In fact, that’s just what happened to me when I began to write my book, Authentic Italian: The Real Story of Italy’s Food and Its People.

What began as research into the history of our foodways opened my eyes to the ways in which Italian-American culture has been misinterpreted or deliberately co-opted by a whole range of entities, the media not the least among that number. The article cited above is only the tiniest tip of that iceberg.

In my book, I dispel much of this misinformation, including dialects and languages of Southern Italy and Italian Americans. As you may already be aware, the majority of Italian immigrants to this country 100 years ago were from Southern Italy, so the languages they spoke were ones from various regions of Southern Italy. For example, Neapolitan and Sicilian. (There were also Northern Italian immigrants who spoke their dialects too.

According to the documentary, Tra Ponente e Levante, in Santa Cruz, California, the Genoese dialect is still spoken. And the Italian Waldensians in Valdese, North Carolina, whom I’ve written about a number of times in the past 16 years, spoke a dialect from the Piedmont region of Italy called Patois.

Also, there were ancient peoples in Southern Italy before the Romans, and they had their own languages. Oscan is a dead language that was spoken by people in the Naples area and by the ancient Samnites in Southern Italy. When the Romans conquered the region, Latin became the standard language. It would be interesting to research what aspects of these native languages survived to present day, especially in Basilicata where people lived in stone caves called Sassi until as recently as after World War II.

Through the centuries, Southern Italy was influenced by Spain, France, the Arab world and Greece, as different invaders and traders came through those areas. Therefore, Southern Italian dialects and languages have all these cultural influences.

Like our foodways, our social customs, and our belief systems, the languages and dialects of Southern Italy were brought to the United States by our grandparents and great-grandparents, and they were handed down through the generations. They are not made-up words invented by Italian Americans or American TV, and they were spoken across the country, not only in the New York area.

Dina Di Maio is a lawyer and writer. Her book, Authentic Italian: The Real Story of Italy’s Food and Its People, was published in March 2018. She encourages you to get in touch on Twitter.